Christian based letters to my Grandgirls
Hey, my sweet grandgirls, I just read an article by Lindsey Maestas that touched my heart … Most of you are dating and I believe Lindsey’s story will touch your heart too.
The second most important decision you will make is choosing your husband. Don’t get sidetracked by looks, feelings, or any other thing that draws you to a guy.
Trust me, if you choose a guy who loves God with all of his heart, he will love you well.
Here is Lindsey’s Story:
When I was 19, I was asked out on a date by a friend of mine who had no reason to be pursuing a girl like me. He was one of the good ones – the kind of man who gives you a glimpse into God’s love and kindness.
In my eyes, I was tarnished. I looked in the mirror and saw damaged goods by every definition of the word. But he still pursued me relentlessly – because he was one of the good ones.
He was honest. He wrote me a letter early on that said, “Lindsey, whatever you want to know, I will tell you. Whatever you want access to, I will show you. I want you to be able to know everything that you want about my life because I care about you.”
I wasn’t used to honest. I was used to working my way around the lies to find a portion of the truth.
This honest, kind & available man was the one who God had in store for me the entire time. And yet, I had forced other guys to fit like broken puzzle pieces because I just desperately wanted to be seen and loved.
Had I continued believing that ‘broken’ was all that God had for me, I never would have found a truly good man. And although he was imperfect and fell short in these areas at times, he would always strive for righteousness and goodness by God’s strength.
Sweet friends, you know that guy that you keep going back to, the one who you can’t seem to let go of no matter how badly he continues to hurt / ignore / damage you? Most of us have been with one. It’s time to let him go.
Read more here … http://www.sparrowsandlily.com/girl-settling-wrong-guy/